We all know a few celebrities, we love some and we despise others. The celebrities we despise may be rich, good looking and successful, but some of us will dislike them because of who they are and what kind of person they may try to be.
Now, we could also compare this to a school setting. Although discrimination and bullying is now highly frowned upon, it was and still is quite a big problem.
Even in school, the victims of exclusion and rejection may not necessarily look or seem like they are hated but are hated because they simply are who they are.
In our english class we are reading "the bluest eye" by Toni Morrison.
Morrison makes an analogy using a metaphor; comparing the black society to a dandelion.
She implies that even if some find the dandelion beautiful, it will always be frowned upon, unwanted, rejected and considered ugly for the simple fact that it is a weed and weeds are to be removed from the yard.
This can be paralleled with the black society, although you may consider the black society beautiful, in that time period, they would always be considered ugly simply because they are black.
Remember when we were little kids and we would find those fuzzy dandelions that looked really cool and would make us sneeze? Remember how we would pick tons of them and blow all of those tiny stems into the air?
Did you know they were weeds back then?
Well I didn't.
I just thought they looked fuzzy and nice and I wanted to see the little stems fly into air.
As children, we are oblivious to society's harsh norms as to what is acceptable and what is beautiful.
Same thing with school, although this may be a touchy and controversial statement; when you were a little kid did you pick your friends based on how they looked?
Or did you pick based on how what color they likes? Or what season or sport or food they liked best?
What about now?
We're too busy making assumptions and judging eachother on social media to ever take an initiative and get to know one another without being blinded by preconceptions.
I'm not accusing anyone here as I myself am guilty of doing the things I just talked about, and I'm pretty sure most of us are, but this just goes to show how perception really can change everything.
"If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is - infinite" - William Blake